November 9, 2011
Babes with Phones: How to keep them Safe
November is Child Safety & Protection month. Many parents use safety gates and car seats but forget that a cell phone may pose one of the biggest safety threats. Cell phones are no longer primarily for making calls but your child may be targeted for sexting, stalking, identity theft and bullying all through this portable device that is supposed to make parents feels safer. My poor 13 year olds are the “only kids in their class” without a cell phone but we are not ready for the risk or the expense when I know they are always under adult supervision.
Dr. Deb’s Cell Phone Safety Tips
1. Password Protect:
Place a password on all phones so another child won’t steal, take photos or send texts on their phone. Many phones contain contact information, passwords and other critical information that you would not want to share. Most carriers will allow you to remotely block information so contact them as soon as a phone is missing. Remember to back up your phone on a home computer.
2. Turn Off Time:
Boys typically send and receive 30 texts a day; girls typically send and receive 80 messages per day
26 percent have been bullied or harassed through text messages and phone calls.
25 percent of text messages sent by teens are sent during class
Teen’s who are considered “hyper-texters” (defined as texting 120 or more messages in a school day), are:
40% more likely to have tried cigarettes
43% more likely to be binge drinkers;
41% more likely to have used illicit drugs;
55% more likely to have been in a physical fight;
Nearly 3.5 times more likely to have had sex; and
90% more likely have four or more sexual partners.
Hold onto the phone until homework is finished and chores are completed. Phones are a privilege, not a right.
Collect phones at bedtime so kids can get a break from the constant texting.
When parent’s limit their child’s text messaging capabilities, they are less likely to be involved in “sexting”; be a passenger in cars where the driver texted behind the wheel or used the phone in a dangerous manner while driving.
Data released today from American Public Health Association show 13% of high school students say they’ve received “sext” messages and one in 10 has either forwarded, sent or posted sexually suggestive, explicit or nude photos or videos of people they know by cellphone or online.
New controversial advice is to delete sexting messages and not to tell. Teachers are obligated to report to the police and sexting is still considered a felony in many areas under child pornography laws. Automatically deleting it does end it and prevent your child from being implicated but I personally I would consider contacting the parent of the child that sexted.
Children that sext reported twice the number of depressive symptoms, compared to teens who did not. 13% of teen involved in sexting reported a suicide attempt during that period compared with 3 percent of non-sexting teens, according to the researchers at the Education Development Center in Newton, MA.
3. Disable Geotagging & Use Parental Controls
2/3’s of teen frequently use a mobile device’s camera to take pictures “love it” and would “die without it.”
When Photos are posted online from a phone most of the time they are geotagged giving the exact longitude and latitude of where that photo was taken. This can give specific home address locations and show patterns of locations giving stalkers an exact map with timetable of your child whereabouts
Learn how to disable geotagging via IcanStalkU.
More than 37% of teens in the U.S. access the Web through their phones.
Parental controls can block content as well as limit accessibility during certain times of the day. Contact your phone carrier for parental control options
Learn about Parental Block Options of popular phone carriers.
4. Don’t Download Apps
54% of text-using teens have received spam or other unwanted texts.
Children’s identities are being targeted more than ever and one of the easiest ways for scammers to access personal information is through malware on apps. Children should never download an app without showing their parent but even reputable apps have been targeted with malware. Generally speaking limiting apps, limit hackers’ access.
Apps that pull information are also common on social networks sites and you should regular check what apps have access to your personal information.
Teach kids not to put their phone number on social networking sites. Don’t click on ads, contests, or texts for free prizes.
Learn how to delete an app from Facebook via Consumer Reports.
5. Pause before you Post
Anything you share on a social network, text or phone may become public knowledge so teach them never to post anything that would hurt or embarrass someone. Recently public comments made on Facebook have become accessible under Google searches.
Start talking about etiquette when they are first learning to use a computer. Constantly reinforce Pause before you Post.
Many parents are overwhelmed with technology just as they were learning to use a car seat. They must also learn the technology so they can keep their children safe.
Dr. Deb





