Archive for the 'Sex Drive' Category

Memory Mini-Pause

Wednesday, July 1st, 2009

As a child I always prided myself on my memory. I could and still can remember specific childhood events as early as age 2 in vivid detail. Things started to blur during residency when I worked 36-hour shifts but nothing destroyed my memory  (as well as other body parts) like children.
The deep slide occurred after the birth of my twins when I boiled my breast pump after forgetting I left it on the stove.  The toxic smell of burnt plastic required the fire department to come and air out our apartment. That certainly ruined my chances for mother of the year. I realized 2 things. Hot soapy water is sufficient to clean a breast pump and hormones made me stupid. Certainly sleep deprivation had much to do with it but I remember the moment that I stood in the kitchen and realized my fantastic memory had slipped and I knew that it was related to my hormones.  Fortunately, my memory returned but I can’t wait to see what happens when I hit menopause.

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You are not crazy….Just perimenopausal!!

Tuesday, March 10th, 2009

Did you ever get old overnight?
Where did these wrinkles come from? How come I can’t read without squinting? Why does my family think I am a bitch? Is it hot in here? Why can’t I sleep? When is my period going to come..or stop? Why do I eat the same but gain weight?
Am I crazy? No, you are just in perimenopause, my dear.
The really crazy thing is when you go to talk to your doctor about it he tells you, ”There is nothing wrong with you” or “You just have to live with it.”
That is simply not true and I think part of the reason why Susan Somers and bioidentical hormones have become so popular. The doctors are not listening, so patients are going to what appears “safer and more natural” which I hate to say, is not necessarily true. (more…)

Ask Dr. Deb..Pain with Intercourse and Spina Bifida

Thursday, September 4th, 2008

Dr. Deb,

I am a Spina Bifida patient, and have had 8 back operations as a result. I haven’t been sexually active in quite sometime; but in the past I have noticed major pain during intercourse. I have a throbbing pain and burning sensation that continues after intercourse especially if Orgasm happens. I do not know the cause because I have not tested positive for any STDs. I wanted to know if my nerve damage could be the problem?

Tarah

 

Dear  Tarah,

Pain with intercourse is known as dyspareunia. Some women have pain deep inside where their pelvic organs are, inside the vagina called vaginismus or just on the outside which is called the vulvadynia. (more…)